When it comes to keeping the spark alive — or reviving a dimming flame — there’s nothing quite like bringing a little youthful energy into the bedroom to turn up the heat.
Whether it’s your love life that needs a boost or your confidence, here are three tips that women of any age can use to spice things up in the bedroom.
1. Bodystocking Lingerie
Whether you’re 22 or 62, the latest lingerie trend is equally flattering on every body type and every age. Looking for an ultra-current look to surprise and delight on the next date night (with yourself or a partner)? Then know that the body stocking is a no-fail option you have to try. No matter what you end up buying, each look offers a particularly flattering take on the classic black lace lingerie style but with a modern and trendy full-body spin.
If you’re looking for something new and fresh that will wow you, Yandy is the go-to place for all lingerie and body stockings, with low prices and quality styles for all body types and ages. A new body stocking highlights the curves of your silhouette while offering just enough coverage to leave your long-time partner wanting more.
2. Time Travel for the Night
If you and your partner have been together for a few years (or decades), it’s easy for things to start feeling stale. After all, you know your partner like the back of your hand, and they know you. But do you remember what it was like when you first met? Dig up some of your first photos as a couple in the early days of your relationship and head to your first date spot (or a similar spot if you don’t live in the same town).
Can you remember how you felt on that first date? Maybe there are things you remember that your partner does not. Have a glass of wine and spend the evening reliving those memories. By the time you get home, you might find yourselves reliving more than just the first date.
3. Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
As we get older, we understand that having sex in places other than the bedroom is often overrated. Getting it on in the kitchen has its downsides. And however important routine is in your day-to-day life, it can also be the death of an exciting sex life.
Besides, putting the sexual spark back in your relationship is a dopamine hit that will take you back to your honeymoon period like nothing else. So, instead of the usual, consider finding a new (soft and warm) spot in the house to relive your wild times. Whether it’s a blanket fort in your carpeted living room or just the couch cushions, there are plenty of ways to break your old habits and introduce some fresh, young energy into your love life.
Don’t Discount Experience
Finally, bringing some spice back into your love life is never a bad idea. However, don’t get too wrapped up in the idea that your glory days are behind you. You may look back fondly on your younger days of exploration, but remember that with exploration comes the unknown, which in hindsight sounds exciting and, in the moment, can be downright terrifying.
Especially when the unknown includes things you now know are far from the top of your list of favorite experiences. With age comes knowledge about yourself, your body, and your partner, all of which contribute to a more enjoyable, fulfilling sex life. Sometimes, it’s not what you don’t have that you need (like needing your 20s back); it’s what you forgot that you already have.